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Thoughts
on the Arrival of Your First Child
Nine months of anticipation have finally come to an end.
This precious gift, granting you an opportunity to learn and grow
in ways you never thought possible, has now arrived. This small,
unknowing source of hope has now been release into the world.
Be gentle with yourself. Realize
that no amount of reading or pre-natal counselling can truly
prepare you for what you are about to experience so don’t be
surprised if you go through an incredible learning curve.
Do not be afraid or ashamed to ask for support. This child belongs
not only to you but also to the world and its well-being is
everyone’s responsibility.
Be aware that, while it may be inexpressible for a time, this
little life holds more wisdom than you will ever know.
Never assume that children are not paying attention or
that they do not understand. Despite the language barrier, there
is much more information conveyed without words.
Be careful not to overburden this new soul with your expectations
for it has come here to embark on its own journey. Act as a
gentle guide and try not to take the reins.
And most importantly, through all the happiness and sorrow and
frustration you will feel, this child needs, above all else, to
be loved and nurtured – more than any video game, more that
any pair of sneakers, more than any vacation. And, in reality,
this is what we all require.
Congratulations!
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